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This past weekend we were able to get a new computer. Our kids are thrilled because they can play their computer games easier. My old laptop gave them trouble with some of their games. Our Aspergers son was especially thrilled. We let him stay on there longer than normal the 1st day. He was having such a good time, we didn't want to pull him off. We usually limit him to no more than 1 hour. Yes, there is some concern allowing him too much time on the computer. He tends to stay pretty isolated often times & computer time doesn't help that I know. It's difficult to push him to stay involved with people. His areas of interest are very different from his peers. While his friends at school are interested in sports & music, he enjoys ancient history. Especially things about ancient Rome. He is fortunate that his dad is interested in history too. They watch documentaries together quite often. He also likes stories about animals. One of his favorite channels is Animal Planet. Another area of strong interest to him is action movies.
I've also been thinking about his time this year in school. He's in his freshman year of high school, which has brought many adjustments. He has made the B honor roll both times, which is wonderful. Our biggest concern is him being able to handle the required courses in areas he struggles with. He's in Algebra I this year & it's a bit of a struggle. He will have to take Anatomy & Physiology at some point & he can barely handle discussions of the body. The requirements for graduation are much tougher than they used to be. I just took Earth Science when I went to school, now they have to have that, plus biology & anatomy & physiology. He will flourish in some areas, like history & studies on the environment. Gym was even difficult for him because he is not into sports at all & that is what they studied.
I am thankful he has a few friends at school that will talk to him. I don't know how much he talks back, but hopefully he is. When dealing with an Aspergers kid, it's hard to get full answers at times. He's also a teen, which makes it even more fun. Everything is "fine". As I have said before, I have to get very specific with how I ask what I ask. I have learned alot about dealing with people from taking care of my son. As a parent, we definitely learn a lot about tolerance from our kids. I have learned to pick my battles, which has been one of the most important lessons as a parent. I've also learned he doesn't forget my mistakes, so I am careful to think before I act. He doesn't understand completely about forgiveness. We're still working on that one. Each day brings new challenges & victories. I've learned to take the bad & enjoy the good. Take time with your kid & enjoy them for who they are. We are all learning together.
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